A CHALLENGE TO FOREIGN MEN !!!
Find your Filipina!
If you are even reading this blog, it means you have an idea or a dream of a better life. I know . I am just like you. A few short years ago I was resigned to a life in Canada where I really had zero hope of any real contentment, let alone joy.
I came to the conclusions ,that the concept of relationships in western society is now totally dysfunctional, as well as that I was just not a desirable commodity to the women of my country. Yes, I was pissed off, resentful, cynical and depressed. It sucked!
I had tried all those online dating sites that you probably have . Eharmony(someone telling me who I was and who I should be happy with. ya right!!) Plenty of Fish(you get what you pay for and I will say no more on that) , and Match.com(the only ones I had any attraction to, happened to be paid to keep me interested). If you are like me , and I suspect you are, you wasted a lot of time and probably money, trying to find the women you desired and were constantly frustrated.
Well that is when I started thinking that maybe , just maybe, it didn’t have to be that way. I knew I was a good man and had a lot to offer to a women and I did not deserve to live a life of loneliness or be in a relationship I didn’t really want, just to avoid that fate.
Is that where you are at now? Again if you are like I was, you are starting to explore the possibilities of a REAL different life with a woman from a different culture. It seems pretty exotic at first, and though it is a dream that might be helping you get to sleep at night, you are still thinking that it is probably not going to happen. You are afraid of the change as well as maybe that your friends and family are going to think you are a little nuts or irresponsible. You, like me, have grown up in a society that has told you that it doesn’t happen to people like you. P.S. They are not the ones who have to live in your life. You do ! And it is your choice to make.
Well, I am here to tell you first hand that it can happen to guys like us! All it takes is the courage to give it a real chance. I now live in Dumaguete City in the philippines, with a beautiful wife that I cherish and who loves me, and I am not the only one. As I walk around the city, everywhere I look there are foreign men with Filipinas, and most of us are far from being spring chickens or will win any awards in the looks catagory(ok , maybe some of us are even a little ugly, lol).
We are guys just like you! The only reason we are here now, and you are where you are is that you have NOT taken the leap and started to do the things you need to do to make your dreams reality.
And this is my challenge to you!
Can you dig down deep within yourself , get over your insecurities and fears,(JUST DO IT) and take the steps to attain that life beyond your wildest dreams? If so, follow my blog and maybe my own personal experience will help guide you down the wonderful journey you can have